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    贴子一览 有多少人想把孩子从小到大再养一次 (新回复在最前,最多列出 6 个)  [列出所有回复]
    tina108624 发表于: 2018/05/21 01:44pm
    恐怕再也不想养的人占多数。
     
    孩子世界 发表于: 2018/04/23 01:20pm
    <p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><img width=600 class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.6236363636363637" data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-w="550" src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/SL01kv8vjY2QOFJDy2rbKUib8cRdpXUCic2Yh9gaQicdYLDGoxewS0SueCK2QqTpDbian3d64PiczWAbDexKTn89tcA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" style=""  /></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-size: 14px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">作者:丁暖<br  /></span></strong></p><p style="margin-bottom: 20px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-size: 14px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">来源:暖观点</span></strong><span style="font-size: 14px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">(ID: nuanguandian)</span></p><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="88501" style="white-space: normal;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: 25.6px;border-width: 0px;border-style: none;border-color: initial;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: left;word-wrap: break-word 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url(&quot;https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/v4vz52CcB13JzTTXXg3mC439fK28gxRKDGnzLBX1Rm1yvuZYaVibibFLKzjw28tc48iayicA2r0TE0gF98zAZsJnDQ/640&quot;);background-size: 100%;background-repeat: no-repeat;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;max-width: 100%;text-align: center;font-size: 16px;font-weight: 700;line-height: 45px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;margin-top: 5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">01</p></section></section></article></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 25px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">晚饭后在广场溜达,见卖棉花糖的摊子前围了一大圈人,我也好奇的走上前。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">原来,一对年轻的爸爸妈妈带着孩子玩,孩子要吃棉花糖,妈妈说不可以,爸爸说没关系,小两口各执一词,在夫妻理论过程中,妈妈一再说棉花糖的“坏话”,又引发了卖糖人加入争吵……</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">一个比一个声高,一个比一个有理,三方论战让围观的人听得饶有兴趣。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">同行的姐妹问我,你学过食品,棉花糖到底是个什么原理,你说说啊?</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">我答非所问,好羡慕啊!</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">羡慕这对年轻的夫妻,羡慕他们眼皮子底下还有一个没有长大的娃娃。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">而到了自己这般年龄,只能望着孩子离家的背影,默默地叨念龙应台的不必追,心底的落寞一言难尽。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">时间都去哪里了,孩子转眼间长大了。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><img width=600 class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.66640625" data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1280" src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/SL01kv8vjY2QOFJDy2rbKUib8cRdpXUCicOzknXdP7dvP9bEE5c9YicdJmUfOmyDKXAHaiaGe86sx8KtNJTVm6OPZw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" style=""  /></p><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="90386" data-color="rgb(216, 40, 33)" style="font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;line-height: 25.6px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-width="100%" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box 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data-wxsrc="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/v4vz52CcB13JzTTXXg3mC439fK28gxRKDGnzLBX1Rm1yvuZYaVibibFLKzjw28tc48iayicA2r0TE0gF98zAZsJnDQ/0" style="margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;max-width: 100%;width: 45px;height: 45px;background-image: url(&quot;https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/v4vz52CcB13JzTTXXg3mC439fK28gxRKDGnzLBX1Rm1yvuZYaVibibFLKzjw28tc48iayicA2r0TE0gF98zAZsJnDQ/640&quot;);background-size: 100%;background-repeat: no-repeat;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;max-width: 100%;text-align: center;font-size: 16px;font-weight: 700;line-height: 45px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word 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15px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">现在说,蹲下来和孩子谈,平等的对话才是有效沟通——因为想起当年自己直接将孩子拖离游乐区的粗暴。</span></strong></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;margin-top: 15px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">现在热心的讨论穷养富养圈养散养——是因为发现自己的确欠下了孩子用心的教养。</span></strong></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;margin-top: 15px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">当年一再的对孩子说,要好好学习,考个好成绩哦——而自己呢,对于如何做个好家长,又学习过什么呢?</span></strong></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;margin-top: 5px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">……</span></strong></p></blockquote><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">而如今,当你追在孩子身后提醒什么时,孩子笑笑的说我懂了,懂了……</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">孩子真的已经懂了,转眼间,孩子长大了。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><img width=600 class="" data-backh="263" data-backw="348" data-copyright="0" data-cropselx1="0" data-cropselx2="542" data-cropsely1="0" data-cropsely2="362" data-ratio="0.5566666666666666" data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-w="600" src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/SL01kv8vjY2QOFJDy2rbKUib8cRdpXUCicFhofqAkib1sJ0LzoaAH9n5Cuqnhmia6xknQ9gBFCib1yII6WNUwXcI0oQ/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" style="width: 558px;height: 311px;"  /></p><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="90386" data-color="rgb(216, 40, 33)" style="font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;line-height: 25.6px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: 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1px;">我看她实在辛苦,忍不住劝。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">她低声说,其实,也不是必须要老二,就是觉得还不懂得养孩子呢,孩子就已经大了,我是真的想把孩子从小到大再养一遍啊!</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">没有好好当过妈,总觉得欠了孩子的……</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">都说不养儿不知父母恩,所幸当我们懂得之后,还有回报父母的机会。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">而当孩子长大后,我们才发现,原来,在孩子成长过程中,我们欠下孩子的,却永远没有弥补的机会了。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">我们无法回到从前,没办法陪孩子再长大一次。</span></strong></span></p><p 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url(&quot;https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/v4vz52CcB13JzTTXXg3mC439fK28gxRKDGnzLBX1Rm1yvuZYaVibibFLKzjw28tc48iayicA2r0TE0gF98zAZsJnDQ/640&quot;);background-size: 100%;background-repeat: no-repeat;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;max-width: 100%;text-align: center;font-size: 16px;font-weight: 700;line-height: 45px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">04</p></section></section></article></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 25px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">送孩子返校,送到学校大门口。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">觉得有点要紧事要跟孩子交代,喊住她,却又想不起来了。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">孩子笑笑,叮嘱我,妈妈,你跟爸爸谈谈戒烟的事,不要老跟爸爸发火。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">说完不放心,又说,算了,还是下次放假我跟爸爸谈吧,你俩一说又要吵嘴,可没有人劝架咯……</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">不知不觉间,母女间的角色互换了……</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">孩子抱抱我转身进了校门,望着她的背影猛地想起要说的事,冲她喊道,妈妈把你的手表放在了书包最里面的兜子了!</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">孩子举起一只胳膊,抬起另一只手指着手腕,示意给我看,她早已经戴上了。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">返程的火车是傍晚的,预留出回车站的时间,我找个硬纸片,坐在马路牙子上,晒着春天的阳光,望着栏杆内绿柳红花掩映的校园,一发呆就是一个下午。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">这儿,是距离孩子最近的地方,我觉得这是天下最好的地方。</span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><img width=600 class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.6671232876712329" data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-w="730" src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/SL01kv8vjY2QOFJDy2rbKUib8cRdpXUCicHdJJeibrLlnj9R10RNFrlQriazrgwBK5vJ39KIxREoeUIBrOmyINEEicw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" style=""  /></p><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="90386" data-color="rgb(216, 40, 33)" style="font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;line-height: 25.6px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-width="100%" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-mpa-template="t" class="" mpa-paragraph-type="ignored" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-mpa-template="t" class="" mpa-paragraph-type="ignored" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-author="Wxeditor" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><article class="" data-author="Wxeditor" style="margin: 5px auto;max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" data-wxsrc="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/v4vz52CcB13JzTTXXg3mC439fK28gxRKDGnzLBX1Rm1yvuZYaVibibFLKzjw28tc48iayicA2r0TE0gF98zAZsJnDQ/0" style="margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;max-width: 100%;width: 45px;height: 45px;background-image: url(&quot;https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/v4vz52CcB13JzTTXXg3mC439fK28gxRKDGnzLBX1Rm1yvuZYaVibibFLKzjw28tc48iayicA2r0TE0gF98zAZsJnDQ/640&quot;);background-size: 100%;background-repeat: no-repeat;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;max-width: 100%;text-align: center;font-size: 16px;font-weight: 700;line-height: 45px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">05</p></section></section></article></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 25px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">一位小学生写了一篇作文,记叙的是爸爸带他去爬泰山的事,大意如下。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">爸爸平时很忙,没有时间陪我,这次去山东办事,赶上我放假,爸爸终于同意带着我去登泰山。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">我晚上兴奋地睡不着觉。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">虽然一路上晕车呕吐,特别难受,可是我心里仍然很高兴。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">我努力做到很乖,帮爸爸背旅行包,不乱花钱买东西。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">凭借自己的脚力,终于站在了泰山山顶。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">让我遗憾的是,爸爸因为工作上的问题没有解决好,全程不开心。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">等自己将来长大上了班,就不让爸爸工作了,我会专门请假带着他再去爬泰山,让他能开开心心的玩一次。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">许多年后,这个孩子已经上大二,孩子爸爸无意间看到了这篇作文,潸然泪下。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">这是孩子整个学生时代,唯一一次和父亲出游,孩子很小心的把这页作文纸裁下来,夹在了自己毕业纪念册里。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">回想当年泰山之旅,这个爸爸说,后悔已经迟了。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">一路上,他因为自己的烦心事愠怒于孩子,埋怨孩子不乖乖在家,加重了自己行程的疲乏劳累。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">现在想想孩子小脸上那时的表情——难得游玩的兴奋交织着被爸爸埋怨的不安,害怕爸爸生气敛声屏气欲言又止的样子,自己恨不得抽自己一个大嘴巴。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">多少父母想回到过去,抱一抱那个不安的少年啊。</span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><img width=600 class="" data-backh="302" data-backw="533" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/SL01kv8vjY2QOFJDy2rbKUib8cRdpXUCicDwcMibtnOn7yndML7qecMjr8Lh052RTPowz2DNGgwibL0CG2iazsde1ZA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-cropx1="14.081180811808117" data-cropx2="848" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="472.5018450184502" data-ratio="0.565947242206235" data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-w="834" src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/SL01kv8vjY2QOFJDy2rbKUib8cRdpXUCicZfia7zcW39g2ibwQB3DibKGO16O6vR44eKibg1Iib3kcibic9NXdoog5IkPEw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" style="width: 100%;height: auto;"  /></p><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="90386" data-color="rgb(216, 40, 33)" style="font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;line-height: 25.6px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-width="100%" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-mpa-template="t" class="" mpa-paragraph-type="ignored" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-mpa-template="t" class="" mpa-paragraph-type="ignored" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-author="Wxeditor" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><article class="" data-author="Wxeditor" style="margin: 5px auto;max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" data-wxsrc="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/v4vz52CcB13JzTTXXg3mC439fK28gxRKDGnzLBX1Rm1yvuZYaVibibFLKzjw28tc48iayicA2r0TE0gF98zAZsJnDQ/0" style="margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;max-width: 100%;width: 45px;height: 45px;background-image: url(&quot;https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/v4vz52CcB13JzTTXXg3mC439fK28gxRKDGnzLBX1Rm1yvuZYaVibibFLKzjw28tc48iayicA2r0TE0gF98zAZsJnDQ/640&quot;);background-size: 100%;background-repeat: no-repeat;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;max-width: 100%;text-align: center;font-size: 16px;font-weight: 700;line-height: 45px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-top: 25px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">06</p></section></section></article></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 25px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">我还不如那个爸爸。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">孩子小的时候,常常对孩子空许诺,等有时间了,咱们去哪哪玩去。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">说多了,孩子渐渐不以为然,还取笑我,放心吧妈妈,我不会当真的,我老妈一向说话不算数的!</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">可我还是爱说,说着说着,孩子长大了。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">在电话里,我随口说自己想去哪里玩时,孩子会很认真的阻止我,妈妈,你不要自己到处乱跑啊,等我毕业会带你去的,你的方向感实在太差了……</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">孩子长大了,才发现,自己当年许下的那个愿,还是一个愿,像一朵不曾开放的花,枯萎在孩子成长的路上。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">每一个早熟的孩子的背后,都有不成熟的父母。</span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">每个父母,或许在做了一次父母之后,才真正的成熟。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">可惜,我们没有第二次机会,去追回一切。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">孩子的成长是一次性实时直播,无法剪辑,无法延迟,无法暂停,更无法倒带重播……</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">孩子成长,你无法做到功德圆满余生无悔。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">都说“山重水复疑无路,柳暗花明又一村”,而现在看来,分明是“柳暗花明又一村,山重水复已无路”,自然界花谢花再开,山不转水转,我们却无路回到那时那刻,回到当年孩子的身边,拉着孩子的小手,用心陪孩子重新长大。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">是不是很伤感啊?</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">也许,我们所能做的努力就是经营眼下的生活,不论脚下的路多么困难,或者多么平凡,都去认真度过。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">每一秒钟,逝去之后都不会再回来。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">时间去哪里了,我们没办法知道,时间给我们留下的唯一的补救办法是,明确你现在的目标,赶快行动吧。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 20px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">不然,再一转眼,过去的,可就是一辈子了。</span></p>
     


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