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    贴子一览 为什么偏偏你的孩子不孝顺? (新回复在最前,最多列出 6 个)  [列出所有回复]
    tina108624 发表于: 2016/03/23 08:29pm
    深受启发。
     
    独钓寒江 发表于: 2016/03/18 12:53pm
    <p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; line-height: 2em; max-width: 100%; text-align: justify; border-color: rgb(95, 156, 239); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="line-height: 1.75em; max-width: 100%; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">一日,隔壁办公室的青姐找我诉说她跟女儿的事。她抱怨刚去外地上大学的女儿寒假回来,用自己兼职赚的钱给婆婆买了一箱补品,给丈夫买了一个刮胡刀,甚至给狗狗买了一副玩具,却唯独没给她带一件礼物!</span><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /><span style="line-height: 1.75em; max-width: 100%; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></span></p></section><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; line-height: 2em; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">“我家邻居老张,人家女儿每月给家里寄2000块钱,多孝顺啊!为什么偏偏我的孩子不孝顺?”</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; line-height: 2em; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我问她:“是不是你的教育方式有问题?”</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; line-height: 2em; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">她惊奇地摇摇头:“怎么会是我的原因?我对孩子那真是像公主一样供着。孩子小的时候,他爸带她出去逛街,回来只有他自己嘴里叼了根冰棍。孩子眼巴巴地看着,都没想起给她也买个。而我呢,处处为孩子着想。有次我跟女儿逛商场,我看中了一条500块的围巾,本来想狠下心买回来的。可是女儿相中了一件格子大衣,2000块!<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 41, 65); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">最后我给女儿结完帐,头也不回地拉着她走了。女儿问我为什么不把围巾也买了,我若无其事地说,太艳了,不喜欢。”</span></strong></span></p></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; height: 0px; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section><section class="135editor" data-id="86322" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="layout" style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 2em; padding-top: 0.5em; padding-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: inherit; font-size: 1em; line-height: 22.4px; border-style: solid none none; border-top-width: 1px; border-color: rgb(204, 204, 204) rgb(198, 198, 199) rgb(198, 198, 199); text-decoration: inherit; color: rgb(70, 70, 72); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: -1.9em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: center; line-height: 1.4; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 20px; display: inline-block; border: 1px solid rgb(198, 198, 199); color: inherit; background-color: rgb(254, 254, 254); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="135brush" data-brushtype="text" data-width="104%" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: -3px; padding-right: 12px; padding-left: 12px; max-width: 104%; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 14px; width: 30.375px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">2</section></section></section></section></section></section><section class="135editor" style="margin: 0.8em 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 1px solid rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.4; font-size: 1.2em; font-family: inherit; text-align: center; text-decoration: inherit; color: rgb(6, 6, 6); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; line-height: 2em; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: left; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="line-height: 1.75em; max-width: 100%; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我思考了一下,对她说:“这就是你的问题了。”于是给她讲起了鱼头的故事——</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; line-height: 2em; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: left; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">有一位贫困人家的母亲,每次有重大节庆全家围坐在一起吃鱼,她都默默地把鱼头盛在自己碗里,从来不自己夹鱼肉吃。孩子问起,她总是说我不喜欢吃鱼,就喜欢啃鱼头。孩子长大后出去大城市打拼,经济条件开始好转。回家看望母亲时,常常给她做鱼头吃,她也一副津津有味的样子。直到有一天,孩子没给她打招呼就过来了。当他看到厨房里一滩鱼头、鱼骨赫然躺着垃圾桶里时,眼泪夺眶而出。<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 76, 65); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">原来母亲也并不喜欢吃鱼头,只是舍不得吃肉而已!一股愧疚感向他袭来。</span></strong></span></p></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; height: 0px; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section><section class="135editor" data-id="86322" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="layout" style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 2em; padding-top: 0.5em; padding-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: inherit; font-size: 1em; line-height: 22.4px; border-style: solid none none; border-top-width: 1px; border-color: rgb(204, 204, 204) rgb(198, 198, 199) rgb(198, 198, 199); text-decoration: inherit; color: rgb(70, 70, 72); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: -1.9em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: center; line-height: 1.4; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 20px; display: inline-block; border: 1px solid rgb(198, 198, 199); color: inherit; background-color: rgb(254, 254, 254); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="135brush" data-brushtype="text" data-width="104%" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: -3px; padding-right: 12px; padding-left: 12px; max-width: 104%; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 14px; width: 30.375px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">3</section></section></section></section></section></section><section class="135editor" style="margin: 0.8em 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 1px solid rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.4; font-size: 1.2em; font-family: inherit; text-align: center; text-decoration: inherit; color: rgb(6, 6, 6); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; line-height: 2em; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我继续说道:“很多母亲像你一样,像故事中的母亲一样,总是为孩子着想,把最好的给他们,却唯独没考虑自己。这种爱虽然伟大,却不一定是对子女最好的。”</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; line-height: 2em; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">“其实关爱孩子的同时,也不要降低自己的生活标准。<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 41, 65); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">不要为了树立所谓的“崇高的母亲”形象而隐藏自己的需求。在孩子面前不要亏待自己,不然既欺骗了孩子更欺骗了自己。</span></strong>久而久之付出与回报会越来越失衡。”</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; line-height: 2em; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">她问我:“那我具体应该怎样让她孝顺我?”</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; line-height: 2em; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我说:“你只要在孩子面前表明自己的喜恶,不亏待自己就行。<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 41, 65); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">你有两个苹果,给她一个,给自己留一个。</span></strong>告诉她,妈妈也喜欢吃苹果。这样,她就在自己内心的小本上记住了——妈妈喜欢吃苹果,以后赚钱多给她买些。”</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; line-height: 2em; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(255, 76, 65); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">“别太委屈自己,也不要轻易对孩子失望。”</span></strong></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; line-height: 2em; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">隔了半年,青姐女儿暑假回来,给她买了一套500块的化妆品。她兴奋地向我炫耀;“我上次说最近皮肤老干,这不我闺女回来就给我买了保湿水!”看她像孩子一样欣喜,我也真为她高兴。</span></p></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; height: 0px; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section><section class="135editor" data-id="86322" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="layout" style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 2em; padding-top: 0.5em; padding-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: inherit; font-size: 1em; line-height: 22.4px; border-style: solid none none; border-top-width: 1px; border-color: rgb(204, 204, 204) rgb(198, 198, 199) rgb(198, 198, 199); text-decoration: inherit; color: rgb(70, 70, 72); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: -1.9em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: center; line-height: 1.4; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 20px; display: inline-block; border: 1px solid rgb(198, 198, 199); color: inherit; background-color: rgb(254, 254, 254); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="135brush" data-brushtype="text" data-width="104%" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: -3px; padding-right: 12px; padding-left: 12px; max-width: 104%; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 14px; width: 30.375px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">4</section></section></section></section></section></section><section class="135editor" style="margin: 0.8em 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 1px solid rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.4; font-size: 1.2em; font-family: inherit; text-align: center; text-decoration: inherit; color: rgb(6, 6, 6); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin: 0.5em 0.3em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 24px; border: none; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; text-align: left; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; color: rgb(255, 76, 65); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">所以,别傻傻地懊恼:为什么偏偏我的孩子不孝顺?</span></strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 128, 255); font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 24px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="line-height: 1.75em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 24px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="line-height: 1.75em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 24px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="line-height: 1.75em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></span></p></section><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; line-height: 2em; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: left; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">首先,你不应该轻<span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">易对孩子失望。</span></span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; line-height: 2em; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: left; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子的品性都是父母通过点点滴滴的小事调教来的。你给他关爱,他也将关爱传递给他人。<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 76, 65); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">只不过很多时候,由于你们之间关系实在单向、太不对等了,他很自然地将你排除在关爱名单之列。</span></strong>就像是鱼与水的关系,鱼儿在水里自由自在,十分舒心。它并不是时刻察觉到水的恩赐,也不至于天天将感谢挂念在心,但一旦遭遇危难,它第一个在意的一定是给它鲜活生命的水。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; line-height: 2em; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: left; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">另外,不要在孩子面前太亏待自己。</span></strong></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; line-height: 2em; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: left; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">要理解孩子的“不孝顺”,多是母亲某些地方没做好。你是不是太迫切地在他面前“表演谦让”了?<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 41, 65); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">好吃好用的,先紧着孩子。舒服的事他来,麻烦的留给自己。问你喜欢什么,你说都可以。就算他有心想孝敬,也琢磨不透母亲大人到底想要什么呀!</span></strong></span></p></section></section></section></section></p><p style="max-width: 100%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="line-height: 24px; max-width: 100%; font-family: 微软雅黑; text-align: justify; color: rgb(255, 76, 65); font-size: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">女人,你的孩子其实比你想象的要孝顺,请对孩子勇敢地说出自己想要什么吧!</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="line-height: 24px; max-width: 100%; font-family: 微软雅黑; text-align: justify; color: rgb(255, 76, 65); font-size: 14px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></span></strong></p><p style="line-height: 25.6px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: right; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">来源:围炉夜读</span></strong></p><p><br  /></p><p style="padding: 0px; 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