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-- 作者: 从安
-- 发布时间: 2022/06/23 01:11pm

<section style="margin-bottom: 0px;"><br  /></section><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">最近几天,各省的高考成绩陆续公布了。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">寒窗苦读数十载,转眼间,千万学子也来到了各自人生的分岔口。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">高考结束后,历来是几家欢喜几家愁。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">但无论结果如何,请心平气和看待那串数字。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">如果你的孩子考得还不错,请抱抱他,奖励他的勤奋、自律、不懈怠。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">如果你的孩子考得不好,沉默了,你不要发脾气,也不用刻意安慰。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">你只需要给他一个温暖的抱抱。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">留给他们一些时间,去消化,去接受,在未来的日子重振旗鼓。</span></strong></span><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;"></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br 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data-author="Wxeditor" style="margin: 5px auto;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;font-size: 14px;"><section data-wxsrc="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/v4vz52CcB13JzTTXXg3mC439fK28gxRKDGnzLBX1Rm1yvuZYaVibibFLKzjw28tc48iayicA2r0TE0gF98zAZsJnDQ/0" style="margin: 0px auto 0em;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 45px;height: 45px;background-image: url(&quot;https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/v4vz52CcB13JzTTXXg3mC439fK28gxRKDGnzLBX1Rm1yvuZYaVibibFLKzjw28tc48iayicA2r0TE0gF98zAZsJnDQ/640?wx_fmt=gif&quot;);background-size: 100%;background-repeat: no-repeat;"><section style="margin: 0px auto 0em;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;text-align: center;font-size: 16px;font-weight: 700;line-height: 45px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0em;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;min-height: 1em;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;">01</section></section></section></article></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;"><br  /></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">这两天,在知乎刷到一个帖子:“高考考砸了,是一种什么样的体验?”</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">有位网友分享了自己的故事。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">她说,出分的头一天晚上,她一夜没睡。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">僵直着头和肩颈等到的分数,却令她如坠冰窖——她不仅无法如愿去211,甚至连普通一本都上不了。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">父母面色沉重阴郁了好几天,觉睡不好,饭吃不下,而她那句哽在喉咙里的“对不起”,却怎么也说不出口。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">自己的梦想,家长的期望,全都碎裂在了那一晚。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">填完志愿后,她更沉默了。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">曾经的同窗,将天南地北奔赴大好前程,她被落下了。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">她说,高考对自己来说,是一场大爆炸,“我是人生的失败者,谁又能否认呢?”</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">那种自责感与无力感,隔着屏幕都能感觉得到。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">生活中,有很多这位网友一样的孩子。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">他们也很努力,也曾披星戴月追赶过,可满心期待,等来的却是事与愿违。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">他们需要承受的,是别人成功反衬出失败的羞耻,是父母的失望,是对自己十年寒窗的无法交代。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">他们会像上面那个网友样,自责、内疚、不甘,会找个地方,独自躲起来默默舔舐伤口……</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">这个时候,不要打扰他。</span><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;"></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">如果可以,开心地为他做一桌饭菜,用无声的关心,去安慰他受伤的灵魂,告诉他:</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">比起你的成绩,爸妈更关心的是你的心情。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">告诉他,比起“春风得意马蹄疾,一朝看尽长安花”,遗憾和失落,才是人生常态。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">而我们每个人,都是在失败失意中成长,跌跌撞撞,但没有放弃希望。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p 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style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0em;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;min-height: 1em;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;">02</section></section></section></article></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">香港有一档节目,叫《寻人记》。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">有一期主持人找到一位30多年前会考失利的校草,想看看当年的成绩,有没有影响到他后来的出路。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;"> 已经56岁的他,如今过着还不错的生活。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">宽敞的房子,体面的工作,还有足以宽慰自己的小爱好。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">当他回首这些年摸爬滚打的经历时,他这样说道:</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;"> “走过,错了,改,再来,永远能重来。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">生命是有take two(再来一次)的,任何事都有take two。</span><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">不是一件事就能决定一个人,人生不是由一件事主宰的。</span><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">” </span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">高考失利,改变的只是一段路程,摧毁不了一个人的根基。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">命运的飓风,可以将一棵不那么粗壮的树拦腰折断,却吹不倒一颗坚韧的小草。</span></strong></span><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;"></span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">前段时间,全网都被俞敏洪新东方直播间刷屏了。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">谁能想到,这个培育出无数个优秀老师,人生几起几落却依然在努力的中年男人,曾经也是个高考的失败者呢?</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">第一次参加高考,俞敏洪的目标是江苏省常熟市地区师专,英语录取线38分,他考了33分;</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">第二次高考,常熟师专英语录取分数是60分,他考了55分。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">几分之差,命运却是云泥之别,但接二连三的打击,并未摧毁这个坚强的灵魂。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">他只得第三次参加高考,这次俞敏洪英语取得95分好成绩,五门功课总分387分,叩开了北京大学的校门。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">莎士比亚曾说,人们可以支配自己的命运,若我们受制于人,那错不在命运,在我们自己。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">高考,是人生的分水岭,是千军万马过独木桥。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">如果你的孩子考砸了,请不要着急,不要给他过多的压力。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">人生是很长的,一次的挫折荒芜不了整个春天,一次失败也并不代表人生的崩盘。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">告诉孩子,只有弱者才会倒地哭泣,勇者永远行进在进取的路上。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">如果你不认输,就没有人能让你输。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="text-align: center;margin-bottom: 0em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-backh="385" data-backw="578" data-galleryid="" data-ratio="0.665625" data-s="300,640" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/SL01kv8vjY12ItuoeyCokaPO0iaLS6pPDlsxZiaXV9wMicibK3ezKfHkwpp4TMutFEWKpd3F3uuZEeDemYVnwhg6GQ/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1280" style="width: 100%;height: auto;"  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="90386" data-color="rgb(216, 40, 33)" style="margin: 0px 0px 0em;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;font-style: normal;font-variant-ligatures: normal;font-variant-caps: 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data-wxsrc="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/v4vz52CcB13JzTTXXg3mC439fK28gxRKDGnzLBX1Rm1yvuZYaVibibFLKzjw28tc48iayicA2r0TE0gF98zAZsJnDQ/0" style="margin: 0px auto 0em;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 45px;height: 45px;background-image: url(&quot;https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/v4vz52CcB13JzTTXXg3mC439fK28gxRKDGnzLBX1Rm1yvuZYaVibibFLKzjw28tc48iayicA2r0TE0gF98zAZsJnDQ/640?wx_fmt=gif&quot;);background-size: 100%;background-repeat: no-repeat;"><section style="margin: 0px auto 0em;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;text-align: center;font-size: 16px;font-weight: 700;line-height: 45px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0em;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;min-height: 1em;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;">03</section></section></section></article></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">据教育部公布的数据,2021年高校升学率为93%左右,本科录取率仅为42%。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">而到了2022年,高考的总人数是1193万。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">按照往年的惯例,将有692万名考生无缘本科。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">虽然我们都期待孩子有朝一日金榜题名、一飞冲天,但遗憾的是,这世界上90%的人终究会归于平凡。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">我想起曾经刷屏网络的《我的儿子是学渣》。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">故事里的父母非常优秀。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">爸爸是985的工科博士,妈妈是985的硕士,两人在最佳生育年龄,按照最科学的方式生下了一个儿子。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">他们一度以为,自己的孩子一定会非常优秀。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">可自从儿子上了小学之后,渐渐暴露出“学渣”体质。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">这对高知父母不愿认命,花费大量时间、精力,报各种辅导班,甚至请来昂贵的一对一家教。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">孩子呢,也很努力。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">不仅按时按量完成作业,还主动要求父母给自己报更多的辅导班。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">可即便大家都卯足了劲往前冲,孩子成绩还是提不上来,还因为过度劳累,拖垮了身体。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">家长心灰意冷之余,不由得开始重新思考教育的意义。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 24px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">在这个过程中,他们惊喜地发现,儿子其实并没有他们想得那么差。</span></p><blockquote data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="43" data-source-title="" style="margin: 1em 0px 0em;padding: 4px 0px 0px 10px;outline: 0px;border-left: 3px solid rgb(219, 219, 219);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5);font-size: 15px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;font-style: normal;font-variant-ligatures: normal;font-variant-caps: normal;font-weight: 400;letter-spacing: 0.544px;orphans: 2;text-align: justify;text-indent: 0px;text-transFORM: none;white-space: normal;widows: 2;word-spacing: 0px;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;text-decoration-thickness: initial;text-decoration-style: initial;text-decoration-color: initial;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="margin: 0px 0px 0em;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);"><strong>他数学不好,可他是家务能手,10岁就能做很多的菜;</strong></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);"><strong><br  /></strong></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);"><strong>他语文不好,可他孝顺父母;</strong></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);"><strong><br  /></strong></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);"><strong>他英语不好,可他在进门时,如果身后有人,就会帮忙撑着门;</strong></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);"><strong><br  /></strong></span></section><section style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);"><strong>他成绩不好,可在班里竞选宣传委员时,全班38个孩子都选了他…</strong></span></section></section></blockquote><section style="margin: 0px 8px;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);font-size: 17px;font-style: normal;font-variant-ligatures: normal;font-variant-caps: normal;font-weight: 400;letter-spacing: 0.544px;orphans: 2;text-align: justify;text-indent: 0px;text-transFORM: none;white-space: normal;widows: 2;word-spacing: 0px;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;text-decoration-thickness: initial;text-decoration-style: initial;text-decoration-color: initial;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif;clear: both;min-height: 1em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></section><section style="margin: 0px 8px;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);font-size: 17px;font-style: normal;font-variant-ligatures: normal;font-variant-caps: normal;font-weight: 400;letter-spacing: 0.544px;orphans: 2;text-align: justify;text-indent: 0px;text-transFORM: none;white-space: normal;widows: 2;word-spacing: 0px;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;text-decoration-thickness: initial;text-decoration-style: initial;text-decoration-color: initial;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif;clear: both;min-height: 1em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif;">这样一个有教养、乐观善良,对他人温柔以待的孩子,未来又能差到哪里去呢?</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">国学大师南怀瑾说,教育应该先教做人,成为一个全面的人才,比任何成绩都重要。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">若把整个人生拉长了看,孩子的品质,其实要大于孩子的成绩。</span></strong></span><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;"></span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">高考重要吗?</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">重要。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">它提供更公平的机会,能带你去更大的舞台。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">可谁又能说,活在自己的世界,做一个令自己满意的人,就不是一种成功?</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">就如有位作家在给儿子的信中所写:</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">“比起让你成功,我更希望你快乐。如果你是一个喜欢动物的人,那对于你来说,做个华尔街经理,每天为钱的数字而斗争,很可能不如每天给大象洗澡,给河马刷牙。”</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">每个人活在世界上,都有自己的位置,每个孩子,也有他自己的天赋与花期。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">父母的使命,是教会孩子拼搏,事与愿违之际,教会他们承受。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">当他有明确的目标时,我们为他插上翅膀,送他直上青云;</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">当他迷茫困顿时,我们做他攀登的阶梯,让他在人生路上缓慢拾级而上。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">好的父母,不攀比、不强求,而是温柔坚定,永远做孩子最坚实的臂膀。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="text-align: center;margin-bottom: 0em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-backh="385" data-backw="578" data-galleryid="" data-ratio="0.66640625" data-s="300,640" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/SL01kv8vjY12ItuoeyCokaPO0iaLS6pPDDibq8fecRyz93g2gILcSBDKjasJghXaaDdJqqgB0jCVibneaQKicht1Bw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1280" style="width: 100%;height: auto;"  /></section><p style="margin: 0px 8px;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;clear: both;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft 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 /></section><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 24px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">有年高考前夕,一位高三班主任,给家长们写过一份告别寄语:</span></p><blockquote data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="43" data-source-title="" style="margin: 1em 0px 0em;padding: 4px 0px 0px 10px;outline: 0px;border-left: 3px solid rgb(219, 219, 219);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5);font-size: 15px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;font-style: normal;font-variant-ligatures: normal;font-variant-caps: normal;font-weight: 400;letter-spacing: 0.544px;orphans: 2;text-align: justify;text-indent: 0px;text-transFORM: none;white-space: normal;widows: 2;word-spacing: 0px;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;text-decoration-thickness: initial;text-decoration-style: initial;text-decoration-color: initial;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="margin: 0px 0px 0em;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);"><strong>“不要抱怨陪伴孩子写作业累人,用不了几年,你看着孩子房间熄灭的台灯,一片漆黑。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);"><strong>会怀念那个小小的背影,坐在那里,一会写写字,一会摸摸脑袋,一会玩玩笔,一会喊妈妈来一下……</strong></span></p><p style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);"><strong>看着孩子空空的卧室,好想早上叫他起床上学。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);"><strong>但此时,也许他已离开你在千里之外。那间熟悉的卧室,已经成为他的旅馆。”</strong></span></p></section></blockquote><section style="margin: 0px 8px;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);font-size: 17px;font-style: normal;font-variant-ligatures: normal;font-variant-caps: normal;font-weight: 400;letter-spacing: 0.544px;orphans: 2;text-align: justify;text-indent: 0px;text-transFORM: none;white-space: normal;widows: 2;word-spacing: 0px;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;text-decoration-thickness: initial;text-decoration-style: initial;text-decoration-color: initial;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif;clear: both;min-height: 1em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></section><section style="margin: 0px 8px;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);font-size: 17px;font-style: normal;font-variant-ligatures: normal;font-variant-caps: normal;font-weight: 400;letter-spacing: 0.544px;orphans: 2;text-align: justify;text-indent: 0px;text-transFORM: none;white-space: normal;widows: 2;word-spacing: 0px;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;text-decoration-thickness: initial;text-decoration-style: initial;text-decoration-color: initial;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif;clear: both;min-height: 1em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif;">高考结束后,我们与我们相伴十几载的孩子,即将离开我们去远方。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">人生的路上,还会很多风雨,而父母留给已成年孩子的,只有目送。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">高考成绩出来了,孩子的人生才刚刚开始。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">无论结果怎样,请给予孩子最暖的拥抱和最深的祝福。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">愿我们的孩子,无论有没有世俗的成功,都活得自由坦荡。</span></section>


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