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<p style="margin: 0px 8px 0em;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">01</p></section></section></article></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;"><br  /></section><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">前几天,湖南衡阳一家三胞胎因全部考上985重点大学引起了大家关注。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">老大赵振兴,664分;老二赵振中,674分;老三赵振华,654分。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">老大老三已经被中国科学院大学录取,老二则被北京大学预录取。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-backh="385" data-backw="578" data-ratio="0.6659142212189616" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/meksZZXgV0Q5j5HGkhLejeFz46BueLtU0UDuh7biaJ52DxOkuv5ZpJwvqyxZV3atHBangl8WH8PHDkrtrQbVQoQ/640?wx_fmt=png&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" data-w="886" style="width: 100%;height: auto;"  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">三兄弟复制粘贴般的优秀,让围观的父母又羡慕又嫉妒。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">看看别人家的孩子,再瞅瞅自家的娃,连写个暑假作业都要抓耳挠腮、东张西望,半天也算不出一道计算题,真是忍不住叉腰跺脚:</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">都是孩子,差别怎么那么大?</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">一边埋怨老天不公,一边感叹别人家父母是不是上辈子拯救了银河系......</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">可哪有什么天生的学霸,只要你深入了解就能发现:</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">每个金光闪闪的孩子背后,都站着奋力托举的父母。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="90386" data-color="rgb(216, 40, 33)" style="margin: 0px 0px 0em;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;font-style: normal;font-variant-ligatures: normal;font-variant-caps: normal;font-weight: 400;letter-spacing: 0.544px;orphans: 2;text-indent: 0px;text-transFORM: none;white-space: normal;widows: 2;word-spacing: 0px;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;text-decoration-thickness: initial;text-decoration-style: initial;text-decoration-color: initial;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif;text-align: start;font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section data-width="100%" style="margin: 0px 0px 0em;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin: 0px 0px 0em;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="margin: 0px 0px 0em;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-mpa-template="t" mpa-paragraph-type="ignored" style="margin: 0px 0px 0em;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-mpa-template="t" mpa-paragraph-type="ignored" style="margin: 0px 0px 0em;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-author="Wxeditor" style="margin: 0px 0px 0em;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><article data-author="Wxeditor" style="margin: 5px auto;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;font-size: 14px;"><section data-wxsrc="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/v4vz52CcB13JzTTXXg3mC439fK28gxRKDGnzLBX1Rm1yvuZYaVibibFLKzjw28tc48iayicA2r0TE0gF98zAZsJnDQ/0" style="margin: 0px auto 0em;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 45px;height: 45px;background-image: url(&quot;https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/v4vz52CcB13JzTTXXg3mC439fK28gxRKDGnzLBX1Rm1yvuZYaVibibFLKzjw28tc48iayicA2r0TE0gF98zAZsJnDQ/640?wx_fmt=gif&quot;);background-size: 100%;background-repeat: no-repeat;"><section style="margin: 0px auto 0em;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;text-align: center;font-size: 16px;font-weight: 700;line-height: 45px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0em;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;min-height: 1em;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;">02</section></section></section></article></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">面对自己如今的成绩,三兄弟说,最想感谢的人就是妈妈。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">“很少会有一个母亲像我们的母亲这样,为了孩子把自己逼成了一位教育专家。”</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">从小,父亲就一直在外地工作,妈妈谭女士一边上班,一边还要照顾3个孩子的生活起居。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">每天早上六点,谭妈妈就会准时起床,给3个孩子做早餐,然后匆匆忙忙去上班。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">晚上下班后,谭妈妈除了干各种家务,还要辅导3个孩子的功课,督促他们养成好习惯。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">面对孩子的错误和缺点,她不吼不骂,总是充满耐心与智慧。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">节假日的时候,她还会带着孩子们去见识世界,比如各种图书馆、博物馆、科技馆,用兴趣引导孩子学习;</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">她还带着孩子去过一些名校,激发孩子对大学的向往,用目标激励孩子上进。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">最让人钦佩的是,因为孩子们很喜欢奥数,于是她逼着自己每天都自学一遍,然后再与孩子讨论。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">为了能教育好孩子,她甚至还逼着自己考取了教师资格证。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">在这个家里,父母对孩子从来不是单纯地说教、控制、发号施令。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">而是逼着自己与孩子一同努力,相互成就。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-backh="383" data-backw="578" data-ratio="0.6632270168855535" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/meksZZXgV0Q5j5HGkhLejeFz46BueLtUch6SERvaQjgRo4s0ibq1k8lW2SHbGvTSF4ictQUqzSYkwBp4K7RS3ib6w/640?wx_fmt=png&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" data-w="1066" style="width: 100%;height: auto;"  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="90386" data-color="rgb(216, 40, 33)" style="margin: 0px 0px 0em;padding: 0px;font-style: normal;font-variant-ligatures: normal;font-variant-caps: normal;font-weight: 400;orphans: 2;text-indent: 0px;text-transFORM: none;white-space: normal;widows: 2;word-spacing: 0px;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;text-decoration-thickness: initial;text-decoration-style: initial;text-decoration-color: initial;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif;text-align: start;font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-width="100%" style="margin: 0px 0px 0em;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word 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auto;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-wxsrc="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/v4vz52CcB13JzTTXXg3mC439fK28gxRKDGnzLBX1Rm1yvuZYaVibibFLKzjw28tc48iayicA2r0TE0gF98zAZsJnDQ/0" style="margin: 0px auto 0em;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;width: 45px;height: 45px;background-image: url(&quot;https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/v4vz52CcB13JzTTXXg3mC439fK28gxRKDGnzLBX1Rm1yvuZYaVibibFLKzjw28tc48iayicA2r0TE0gF98zAZsJnDQ/640?wx_fmt=gif&quot;);background-size: 100%;background-repeat: no-repeat;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin: 0px auto 0em;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;text-align: center;font-size: 16px;font-weight: 700;line-height: 45px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin: 0.5em 8px 0em;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">03</section></section></section></article></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin: 0px 8px;padding: 0px;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 17px;font-style: normal;font-variant-ligatures: normal;font-variant-caps: normal;font-weight: 400;letter-spacing: normal;orphans: 2;text-align: justify;text-indent: 0px;text-transFORM: none;white-space: normal;widows: 2;word-spacing: 0px;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;text-decoration-thickness: initial;text-decoration-style: initial;text-decoration-color: initial;"><br  /></section><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">想起被网友誉为“学神”的丁雯琪。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">她是安徽省首个麻省理工的录取生,还同时接到8所世界名校的橄榄枝。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><section style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 24px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">到底有多厉害,才能一举获得这么多名校的青睐?</span></section><blockquote class="js_blockquote_wrap" data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="110" data-source-title=""><section class="js_blockquote_digest"><section><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);letter-spacing: 1px;"><strong>AP美国大学预修课程,她8门课程皆满分;</strong></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);letter-spacing: 1px;"><strong>在SAT2全球统考,单科满分800 ,她数学和物理双满分,化学也取得760的高分。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);letter-spacing: 1px;"><strong>ACT(被称为“美国高考”),满分36,她首考成绩就有34分。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110);letter-spacing: 1px;"><strong>托福,满分120分,她也考了114分。</strong></span></p></section></section></blockquote><section style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-backh="344" data-backw="578" data-ratio="0.5956284153005464" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/meksZZXgV0Q5j5HGkhLejeFz46BueLtUl5eGz8GiaY8VaV27CfqFO7Jg2cbhicNRBDnRUmZf3J3SYMrmXuLQekGg/640?wx_fmt=png&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" data-w="915" style="width: 100%;height: auto;"  /></section><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">虽然成绩很好,但丁雯琪却不是“书呆子”。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">17岁的她,能歌善舞、样样精通,钢琴和古典舞都拿了十级,还擅长芭蕾舞和书法篆刻,各种竞赛奖项也拿到手软。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">谁也想不到,在大家眼里近乎完美的“天才少女”,曾经也和多数普通孩子一样叛逆,不想练琴、反感上补习班。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">小时候,她也很贪玩,做事三分钟热度。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">看到别的孩子都在玩,而自己却被关在房内练琴、练舞,她心里非常抵触。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">丁妈妈发现她的消极情绪后,没有指责和打骂,而是先给她减压,只保留了她感兴趣且表现不错的兴趣班。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">接着,丁妈妈一边鼓励女儿,要把大目标变成小目标,一个一个攻克。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">一边还耐心开导女儿,“这些好玩着呢,是你还没练到那个点。”</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">在妈妈的循循善诱下,丁雯琪得到的肯定和赞美也越来越多,内驱力也完全被激发出来了。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">丁雯琪还有许多好的习惯,比如做完作业才能玩,中午要定时午休,什么时间做什么事情等等……正是这些促成了她耀眼的成绩。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">丁雯琪说,其实父母工作养家也很忙,根本没有太多时间陪伴。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">但在她的家教中有最重要的一环,就是父母的以身作则。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">她午睡时,父母陪着一起午睡;她阅读时,父母也一起阅读;她写作业时,父母也在一旁看书。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">你看,哪有什么所谓的“天才”,优秀孩子的背后都浸透了父母的用心。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">每个孩子,都是有迹可循的因果。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 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2;text-align: justify;text-indent: 0px;text-transFORM: none;white-space: normal;widows: 2;word-spacing: 0px;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;text-decoration-thickness: initial;text-decoration-style: initial;text-decoration-color: initial;"><br  /></section><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">记得在知乎上曾经看到一个高赞回答,一针见血地道出了多数父母教育孩子的误区:</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">我妈:你看XX,成绩那么好,你怎么不学学人家?!</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">我:你看XX父母那么好,你怎么不学?!</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">我妈:人家父母好,你去给别人当儿子啊?看别人要不要?!</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">我:哦,那你把别人儿子抢来啊!看别人愿不愿意给你当儿子?</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></p><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-backh="128" data-backw="561" data-cropselx1="0" data-cropselx2="545" data-cropsely1="0" data-cropsely2="691" data-galleryid="" data-ratio="0.22890173410404624" data-s="300,640" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/meksZZXgV0Q5j5HGkhLejeFz46BueLtUGFFEhTBkRyq66Puvfuxawh4v2gHtXQbmeWTqeW0hEBzDcZ2sTjrXDw/640?wx_fmt=png&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" data-type="png" data-w="865" style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;vertical-align: bottom;height: auto !important;box-shadow: rgb(210, 210, 210) 0em 0em 0.5em 0px;font-size: 17px;visibility: visible !important;width: 645px;"  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">我们总是在羡慕别家孩子,嫌弃自家孩子,可我们自己呢?</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">真的对孩子尽到了管教、陪伴、引导的责任了吗?</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">在湖南三胞胎新闻的评论里,我看到了这样一条:</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">“看到别人家的父母,才知道自己真的没资格指责孩子教训孩子。”</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">他说女儿现在初三了,不仅成绩在班上倒数,还在学校里逃课、上网、偷东西......打也打了骂也骂了,可女儿依然我行我素,毫无悔意。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">有一次,把女儿逼急了,她哭着说出了心里话:</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">“我作业不会写的时候,你们教过我一次吗?</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">学校开家长会,你们有去过吗?</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">我为什么成绩不好,你们真正问过吗关心过吗?<br  /></span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">小时候不管我,现在我长大了,你们也管不着了!”</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">那一刻,作为父亲他愣是一个字也反驳不出来。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">正如著名教育家克鲁普斯卡娅所说:“家庭教育对父母来说,首先是自我教育。” </span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">可很多父母,往往是自己没做好,拼命逼孩子,自己哪儿都对,错全怪孩子。</span></strong></span><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;"></span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">一位教师朋友曾经和我说过这么一番话,让人醍醐灌顶:</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">孩子小时候,总有父母嫌麻烦想偷懒,选择两手一摊,把孩子托付给老师、给学校,甚至当个包袱一样甩给老人。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">结果呢,孩子长大了,成绩不行,脾气还大,毛病一堆,于是家里总是鸡飞狗跳。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">说到底,还是父母的责任。生而不养,养而不教,最后注定是悲剧收场。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">教育的很多问题,答案都在父母身上。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">若孩子不成器不成才,最应该反思的不是孩子,而是父母自身。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="90386" data-color="rgb(216, 40, 33)" style="margin: 0px 0px 0em;padding: 0px;font-style: normal;font-variant-ligatures: normal;font-variant-caps: normal;font-weight: 400;orphans: 2;text-indent: 0px;text-transFORM: none;white-space: normal;widows: 2;word-spacing: 0px;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;text-decoration-thickness: initial;text-decoration-style: initial;text-decoration-color: initial;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang 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style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">“妈妈天天打牌,实在不知道怎么写......”</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-backh="655" data-backw="500" data-ratio="1.31" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/meksZZXgV0Q5j5HGkhLejeFz46BueLtU2piaU4b4tOtJ403Nl9zhT3elFbpyGkSINq8pfQKbkQI5UiaYuRgnODRA/640?wx_fmt=png&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" data-w="500" style="width: 100%;height: auto;"  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">一则视频里,老师问孩子们:“爸爸平时喜欢做什么?”</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">“打游戏、打麻将、看手机、看电视、抽烟”,这些答案占了9成。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-backh="457" data-backw="578" data-ratio="0.7914893617021277" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/meksZZXgV0Q5j5HGkhLejeFz46BueLtU9EkGDJbfb7UsHWy70kqFFulkPncN3V4sdmkHy6BveN4zvZJiaHN0EXQ/640?wx_fmt=png&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" data-w="940" style="width: 100%;height: auto;"  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">看到这些,不知有多少爸妈和我一样自惭形秽。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">在央视记录片《镜子》里有一段孩子的独白:</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">“我是一面镜子,我的面孔能照出我是如何忠实于父母,无论是外表还是内心,与他们是多么的相似。”</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">你想要孩子成为什么样,首先自己要努力成为什么样。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">就像一位网友说的那样:</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">“十几年来,我的爸爸每天坚持6点半起床,看书充电。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">而我的妈妈,只要有空闲,也会拿起书本认真阅读。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">每天晚饭后,父母总是相约在楼下空地打打球,或是跑跑步,回家后乐此不疲地交流运动的好处。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">多年以后,我才惊觉这些是父母‘刻意为之’的教育。<br  /></span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">曾经的我,早上起不来,一看书就发困,一运动就犯懒,可当我看到父母都还在坚持,就突然觉得早起也没有那么痛苦了,读书好像也没有那么难,运动也成了每天的习惯。”<br  /></span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">最好的家庭教育,从来没有什么点石成金、立地成佛的技巧,而是一段春风化雨、自然无为的过程。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">父母负责,孩子才能出色;</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">父母严格,孩子才懂自律。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">父母努力,孩子才会上进。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">教育孩子,不怕没文化没背景,怕的是自己从不反思和成长。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="90386" data-color="rgb(216, 40, 33)" style="margin: 0px 0px 0em;padding: 0px;font-style: 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initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">06</section></section></section></article></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">教育学里有一个</span><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong>“剪刀效应”</strong></span><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">:</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">孩子小时候区别不大,经过父母不同的教育方式,成年后差距越来越大。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-backh="714" data-backw="554" data-cropselx1="0" data-cropselx2="554" data-cropsely1="0" data-cropsely2="702" data-galleryid="" data-ratio="1.2883211678832116" data-s="300,640" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/meksZZXgV0Q5j5HGkhLejeFz46BueLtUNvJRr437psFvibQNsQOicJIibdVDJb1nVBKZFpkneWHaVS6AT9L9ziar6A/640?wx_fmt=png&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" data-type="png" data-w="548" style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;vertical-align: bottom;height: auto !important;box-shadow: rgb(210, 210, 210) 0em 0em 0.5em 0px;font-size: 17px;visibility: visible !important;width: 645px;"  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">别人家的孩子背后,都站着别人家的父母。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">若你也想要教育好孩子,不妨先在自己身上使把劲儿。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">父母的意义,不一定在于你能为孩子传道解惑,更重要的是,要给孩子营造一种努力向上、积极进取的家庭氛围。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">就像三胞胎的妈妈说的:“他们在学习,我也要学习。”</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">父母身上的勤奋、严格、自律、乐观、向上、正能量......这每一个标签都会潜移默化地影响孩子、塑造孩子。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br  /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">别光顾着逼孩子,教育首先要逼自己。</span></section>


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